Sunday, June 12, 2011

Business and Family: Can not "or"?

If you increasingly began to notice the peremptory tone in his voice, if when you come home with all household members are strongly of the case, and if you start a conversation over dinner is not a "How are you ..." and with "Why do you ... "it means only one thing - your business has started to displace families. This is not good, and deserve to be challenged. Try to figure out how. Be a woman even the most successful businesswomen can measure business acumen with the male entrepreneurs, however, crossing the threshold of the house, she should clearly understand: "What is permitted to Jupiter is not permitted bull", so protracted negotiations, corporate, travel and other "retard" on work of factors need to be minimized. A man came to the club to negotiate, the lady - to rest the myth, but to debunk it yet no one has yet succeeded, as many others on the admissibility and inadmissibility of female behavior, women's participation in business and other purely male thing. If you are, of course, Clara Zetkin, but do not spend time fighting stereotypes, and his family. And remember: even the producer organizes public events and does not attend them. Think of the reputation you need and how much business it should be: party girl or a businesswoman. The degree of participation is a misconception that without your business get up close an eye: the negotiations will alternate, on the corporate parties sufficiently lighted for an hour the other, all the current issues instruct hired director. Well, if not, then, alas, your place in the kitchen or, at best, in the chair for the perpetrators, and no leader and businessman. Many wealthy parent company, ie business owners in person only knows the top management and the chief accountant, and it does not interfere with business to grow and develop. Defusing She is physically and mentally. Endure all the negative with the work in the family no one wants, just so it turns out. If the last time you open the house door with his foot, heel or rather, try after a tense and nervous the day to go to the gym, go shopping, meet with a girlfriend. You hold only for an hour, but no one noticed, because you go home relaxed, contented and happy. Can not be occupied permanently Constant visual signal and excuses other than quarrels and insults will lead to the fact that the importance of an event in your business is perceived as routine and commonplace. Eternal-time only cancels the degree of significance of the problem, and the family does not believe and not hope that you find a minute to them. Take the whole family at the table and circle the dates on the calendar when you are engaged in negotiations, procurement, tax inspection, etc. Let's family clearly knows that in this period, you can not count. But if you have planned summer vacation with your family, please lose the additional margin, and fly to Goa, and if this edge as hard, try to perceive the situation as an opportunity cost. Kept his word, you ensure yourself understanding and respect for family members: children will know that if mom is busy, it's really important and in no case could not be disturbed. Prioritizes Whatever it was, the woman - the keeper of the hearth, and even if, it breeds in him a fire, and prepares borscht husband or housewife, it does not give her the right to "include" Head of the house. From his mother and wife are waiting for warmth, affection, caring, super-successful and super busy business woman, the house has become a soft, homely and understanding. This is important for the proper upbringing of promise to build a family of children, and for the interpersonal relations of husband and wife. Combine business and family - aerobatics, both for men and for women only if he forgiven torn off and missing the mornings, then it does not have any right to it. With this must come to terms, and once for himself apart priorities clearly to follow them, as well as the business plan.

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